Showing posts with label friends. Show all posts
Showing posts with label friends. Show all posts

Saturday, February 3, 2018

10 REASONS WE NEED AWESOME FRIENDS

At a point in life I felt like okay, friends don't really matter, I still have me. But friends do matter. They may sly you, or be annoying, mean or selfish sometimes. But if you have the right friends you will overcome all obstacles together. We all need friends. Here are few reasons why:


Looking good already.


1. SHARING JOKES:
Sometimes when we are going through posts or just reading or watching something. We tend to come across really funny things that makes us go all "LMAO" to ourselves. Having someone around to show such things and making them laugh makes the moment better.



2. GETTING FOOD:
Walking along that long hall, maybe in the cafeteria, or just getting food from outside, is a task most of us don't like to carryout  alone. We need someone to walk with and laugh with us even when nothing is funny, all just for company.

Ever ready.


3.STUDYING:
Most of us are in school or have been in a school so we can relate. Sometimes there's just no vibe to read, but seeing a friend reading a book or maybe a class note is enough to make you pause the movie you were on and get to work.

If you know, you know.


4.COMFORTER:
When things go wrong at times, maybe a really bad breakup, a lost possession / person, an accident or even mood swings. Having someone there to hold you and comfort you makes a bigger impact than you know.



5.NETFLIX AND CHILL:
Maybe a new movie just came out, you need to take a walk, someone to launch that new video game with, someone to talk and laugh with or you just want to be in another humans presence or arms. Friends are also there for chilling.





6. MEMORIES:
In life you need good people relationship to excel most times. Keeping good friends close is advisable, because no one knows where they will end up in life. It may be that old friend from 1st grade that gives you your destiny boost.



7.CHECKS AND BALANCES:
Some friends are as rare as an eclipse. These people help us keep ourselves together especially through rough times. They always tell us the truth and can even make us better people. If you need to keep friends, keep good ones.




8. HUMAN DIARY:
Sometimes really awesome things happen to us and we need someone we trust to share it with. I like to call those type of friends my diaries because I know they will understand and wont go blabbing it around or judging.



9.ADVENTURE:
Going on trips, excursions, to parties, dinners, or places you're not allowed😺. Its a big no-no doing any of these alone. Find the right partner in crime to make the experience worthwhile.



 10. FRIENDS KEEP US HAPPY: 
If you have a good friends the probability of you living a sad life is really low. Company has its own way of living us feeling loved and happy.

Yay them.


That's all for now. Hope you enjoyed it and will appreciate your friends more now. Go get yourself some friends now and have fun. Don't forget to leave your comments and experiences below.

Monday, May 8, 2017

Friends and Frienemies



What use is forgiving your ENEMIES, if you can't even forgive your own FRIENDS?

There's this "humour quote" that says - "The bible probably tells us to love our neighbours and love our enemies, probably because they are generally the same people".

Sometimes even the funniest statements contain constants of truth. Think of it this way - a lot of times your 'enemies' are simply friends that you haven't made yet, and I believe that friends are simply 'enemies' you've come to understand.

Monday, March 20, 2017

Best Friend For Sale



Well.
I really don't think I should be writing this article.

You'll know why if you keep on reading.

Most people have this one, special, always-there, super-understanding friend. If I was in a satire type of mood, my next sentence would say "These people are afflicted with the Best Friend Syndrome - ". But I'm trying to be nice today, so I'll throw sugar and blue icing on everything here. I do hope you don't have mental diabetes though. (I'm talking to you goth-lover)

I've had several "Best Friends" throughout my 23-yearcareer in humanity. I can happily sum up my experiences with this sentence.


"Don't Do It."

Wednesday, February 1, 2017

23 Lessons In 23 years

So...I've learnt a great many things in these 23 beautiful years, and I'd like to share just a few of them - only 23 of them, with you.  You may have seen these words before, but just not in this way...
Ready... Set... Go!!

Thursday, February 12, 2015

The Stony Heart

The Stony Heart
The rumors and whispers are at it again
They tell of a heart turned icy within
With veins of marble, and walls of stone
Interior muscle - the colour of bone
But what could have turned such an affectionate heart,
To a mettle of flesh, so stone cold dark?

Monday, December 1, 2014

11 Awkward Moments

So I'm hearing that my blog posts are a lil long for most people shaa. I've heard oo. But I won't make any promises I can assure you that not all the posts are going to be long. Just the ones on deep thoughts ;)

So here I've compiled a list of awkward moments that have happened to me as I recorded and remembered them. Now all of them actually happened. But not all of them happened to me. Only 4 of them did not happen to me. My friends however....



# That awkward moment that you tell someone "welcome" when you're visiting them

# That awkward moment when you wave at someone you...

Friday, November 28, 2014

Change and Stereotype



It doesn't always seem so obvious does it? When someone suddenly changes who they, how they act, dress and talk? Imagine that "innocent" boy you knew down the road, popped into university for a while, and came home a master weed smoker. Or that cute girl you used to be friends with, who now puts on excessive makeup and goes to parties almost every night with her new friends because she was told that she isn't "pretty and fun enough" (This can be a controversial example).

It’s one thing to want to change for the better or try something new. It’s something else entirely to want to change for the worse or try something you know will never work for your best. I know how many times I've been made fun of, underestimated or challenged because of the way I present myself and act. I can’t really say I know the entire reason why so many people find a lot faults in the things and ways I have. If however I were asked I would say it all has to do with the issue and problem of the “stereotype”
  • ·         Boys are all players
  • ·         All girls like barbies
  • ·         Teenagers have all had sex before they all hit 20
  • ·         Igbo people love money too much
  • ·        All Nigerians are scammers.

Thursday, November 20, 2014

The Rival

Have you ever had a competitor in something? If you're saying no, and you're a human being, then I'm not exactly sure if I have any good news for you, or maybe you just don't know. The truth is ever since we've existed, even before our birth we've competed.



You've competed with the other spermatozoa to get to that fertile egg.
You've competed with your siblings for food, toys and attention.
You've competed with life issues for survival each day.
You even compete with gravity - every day that you stand up again.