How To Shoot Your Shot (For Ladies) - Part 2

I'm not even going to waste too much time, I'll just be jumping straight into it. Make sure you've read part 1 HERE, before continuing, so you understand where we're coming from.

Now, please note that I'm not a PhD holder in human relationships, or a relationship expert, so take everything with a pinch of salt. (Or sugar... everyone likes sugar)

1. Do some light stalking.

Ah... he has 8 ex-girlfriends.
They must have been terrible girls then.

I don't mean take a catalogue of his entire life history. Just check his social media posts to see the kind of things he likes, or pays attention to. Know the kind of person you're dealing with.



2. Plan your attack.

Does he like the color blue? Or talking about football?

You could always depend on luck and jump right in, but it's usually better to start imagining how you want the conversation to flow, so that you seem like a fun, easy-going character.



3. Jump into the fray.

You're mine now.

Be rest assured, you're probably not the only lady eyeing him. So start as soon as possible to get the ball rolling. Make sure you find out what's going on his life first, so that you don't come in with the wrong attitude. Don't be screaming about how happy your life is, when his favourite puppy just died. Seriously mean.



4. Follow through with multiple shots.

You won't escape me today, hehehe

The first step isn't everything. Not all guys are going to assume your intentions when you say hello. You could be trying to get their friends number for all they know. Be open minded and sincere. You don't need to message him every single minute of the week or day, but just keep up with his life often, and from time to time, and show genuine interest.


5. Be honest.

It's not you I like. I just messaged you because
I'm afraid of talking to your friend

Remember, we're not mind readers. Tell us what you're doing. Don't use 3 months building up, only to find out that he's married or just got a girlfriend last week when you were wasting time. If you don't know what you're doing, or how to get/keep his attention, ask. Making the wrong moves doesn't help you or him.



6. Take it like a lady.

He don't deserve me.

It's not every guy you like, that will be into you as well. And it's also not every guy that's cool with girls who shoot their shot first. (See why getting info is useful?) Not everyone in the world is wise. At least 100% of the time. If it doesn't work, take your bullet/arrow back and move on. Your king is waiting for you somewhere out there. You may not even need to shoot your shot for it.



I know y'all don't like reading too much, so I summarized as much as I could. I hope this helps. Shoot your shot. Everybody's a target. (Except married people. Please leave them alone. Some wives have real bullets.)


If you have questions, tips or corrections to add, please type them out in the comment section. Let's see if we can reach 50 comments 😃😃.



Thanks for coming.
Love, stars and the perfect sniper shot.

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