Is This Love That I'm Feeling?

It's Valentines Day!!
When the air's so sweet with love, it could give you diabetes.
Seriously.
Don't. Go. Out. Side.

You can breathe it in.

So anyway... most of anyone who's writing on anything today, or acting on some sort of media outlet is going to focus on LOVE... well... that or sex, gifts and money. People these days don't seem to know how to distinguish between the two.

I, however, will be doing something different* . If you've been reading my blog then you probably really know I usually like thinking outside the box much. You shouldn't blame me. With my height, my head is always sticking out of the box....


Today I'm writing on what comes after that rushed blood, heart-thumping feeling many people know as "Love". I'm not going to define Love, I've already expanded on that here (click on it). Though I think that post needs updating really.

Most people are unable to distinguish between how love makes you feel, and the attachment you get from sex. It's true. Using our Hollywood movies for example - Let's see how the love declaration scenes tend go in movies.

Scenario 1:
Guy: I love you
Girl: I love you too

**Kiss**


Scenario 2:
Guy: I love you
Girl: Finally.... I've always loved you too

**Mindboggling, deep-throated frenchkiss**
(How do they do that? Don't they need to breathe?)


Scenario 3:
Girl: I love you
*Guy holds girl in his arms, stares at girl and takes his hand and strokes the side of the girls face...ever so slowly from her right temple all the way down to her lower lip*

Guy: You won't believe how long I've waited for you to say those words...

**Hmmm....If I describe this kiss, you may not feel okay today. Ahem**


Scenario 4:
Guy: I love you
Girl: *stares deeeeeply with eyes full to the brim with broiling emotions*
*Takes off clothes*

*Cue hollywood award-winning makeout of the century*

*Bang Bang*

(And I don't mean gunshots either - do forgive the rawness. It won't happen again. Maybe.)



Most of you know that I'm not joking. This stuff actually happens. Music videos are more sex-centered than ever. They're basically softcore porn these days. You walk into a cafeteria to buy food, you just turn your head smaaaaall - and all you see is 3 girls in 'bum short' gyrating like snakes. Those are even the modest ones.

But let me not go off topic. For those in a relationship right now, just ask yourself what's next. What comes after?

- What comes next? When the sex is no longer new or exciting? It's now routine like washing plates.
- What comes after? When the kisses are all dried up. No more expectant tingling or heavy breaths.
- When your boyfriend becomes short on cash?
- When distance takes you away for a time, and the only bit of contact you have is through radio waves.

Does your love still stand - mighty like a stone pillar, and strong like a mountain? Or does it wither, dry and die... like an rose in the desert - misplaced, and lacking roots, after being fed by nothing but  lies of moistened air?

Have you ever wondered about the state of marriages these days? Compared to those from long ago, from way back when. A lot of marriages from 10 -15 years back are riddled with divorces, affairs, and all sorts of problems that could make you think real hard about entering a convent or seminary.

Think hard about what holds your version of "love" together - and what would happen if it loses value, or is no longer there. Is it the money? The praise? The ass?


Think hard.
Is it love that you're feeling?

Let's Be Legendary,
Love, Stars and Feelings Schmeelings

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